If you’ve ever found yourself staring longingly at a dessert table, feeling torn between indulgence and guilt, you’re not alone. The sweet allure of sugary treats often comes with a heavy dose of self-reproach, leaving many to question: “Should I really be eating this?” As a dietitian and dessert lover, I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to sacrifice your sweet tooth for a healthy lifestyle. In fact, embracing moderation can lead to a more sustainable relationship with food. Let’s explore how you can enjoy desserts without the guilt, ensuring that your love for sweets fits into a balanced diet.

Should You Avoid All Sugars?

Misconception: All added sugar needs to be avoided in a healthy diet.

Fact: While I do recommend a diet with limited added sugars, I do not forbid them—desserts can be a part of a healthy diet. Moderation is key.

I often brainstorm newsletter topics with my husband. Earlier this summer, he texted me, “I thought of a good topic for your next newsletter, from which you can speak from a lot of personal experience: How to handle a fierce sweet tooth.” It’s true; I love sweets! If you love sweets too, or if you have questions about a healthy approach to handling desserts, tune in.

I firmly believe one crucial factor in a healthy diet is that it is sustainable and realistic long term. When working with clients who hire me as their personal dietitian, I often ask: is this change we are making a lasting change, or is it one that you can only do short term? Can you maintain this habit over time? Strict adherence to a rigid diet can lead to frustration and feelings of deprivation. When it comes to dessert, allowing for occasional indulgences without guilt helps you maintain a positive relationship with food, reduces the risk of binge eating, and decreases the chances of abandoning a healthy diet altogether.

Three Things to Consider For Moderating Sweets

1. Portion Control - Instead of eliminating sweets entirely—which can lead to cravings and overeating—find smaller, controlled portions of desserts. This approach can satisfy your cravings without leading to excessive calorie intake. Remember, things that are forbidden often become more enticing. When it comes to desserts, push back on the all-or-nothing mentality.
2. Mindfulness - Slow down and savor each bite. Enjoy the dessert while recognizing when you’re satisfied. It’s okay to leave some behind if it isn’t as enjoyable as you thought it would be. I can’t tell you how many pieces of birthday cake I’ve finished when a few bites would have been just as satisfying.
3. Frequency - Setting realistic goals for how often you consume desserts can give you the freedom to enjoy them in moderation. Consider your current habits: if you eat dessert every day, don’t aim to only indulge once a month. Instead, start to identify your triggers for wanting something sweet and build healthy habits around them.

Some Go-To’s for My Sweet Tooth

• Ice Cream in a Small Bowl: Ice cream is by far my favorite dessert, and we almost always have some in the freezer. A few years ago, I bought the cutest small glass bowls and have loved them as my ice cream bowl.
• Dove Chocolates: Individually wrapped and rich, I enjoy these as an afternoon treat or an after-dinner dessert.
• Fresh Fruit with Toppings: Fresh fruit topped with melted chocolate chips or whipped cream makes for a delightful treat.
• Greek Yogurt with Toppings: Greek yogurt with chocolate shavings, honey, nuts, or dried fruit is another favorite.

Summary of Key Takeaways

Embracing a healthy relationship with sugar doesn’t mean you have to give up desserts entirely. Focus on portion control, practice mindfulness, and set realistic frequency goals to enjoy treats without guilt. If you do this, you can savor some great desserts while staying healthy.

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